The article in my previous post has not left my mind. I could think of quite a few ways to complain about it, and all of the harm that article could do, but I've decided that it wouldn't be helpful to any new parents who are scared and need advice.
So here are the questions...
How did all of bond with your preemie?
Did it happen in the NICU or not until your baby was home?
Did your preemie seem to want to bond with you?
Do you have any suggestions on what actually did work to help you feel close to your preemie?